A ‘Like’ for the ‘Like’-button

Who would have thought that the tiny blue thumbs up icon would cause such a drama? More and more people decide not to use Facebook’s ‘Like’-button anymore for various reasons. Blogger Len Kendall took it to the extremes and put himself under arrest. He won’t be liking anything this month. Kendall expresses his concerns that liking has become automatised behavior, which makes our social interactions thought- and meaningless. Well, maybe there are many people who like without thinking. But is that bad at all?

01 Like for a like1 A ‘Like’ for the ‘Like’ button by How Can I Be Social (HCIBS)

Spread the love

Social media, and especially Facebook are a place to share joy, happiness and good news – things which are all likeable by their nature. If you like a post or comment that made you smile, you simply say ‘thanks for spreading the love’. Hitting the blue button costs no time or effort but you can give the smile back to the person who posted. It is no big deal to friendly say hello to the bus driver but your kindness could make his day a little brighter.

Not for smart asses

Well-educated people might claim that liking is terribly superficial. Yes it is, welcome to the world of Social Media. This is not the place for broadly articulated thoughts or philosophical discussions about ‘the meaning of nose hair’. Facebook is a coffee party where friends and wannabe friends keep in touch by having a little chit chat. Nobody will take the time to read through your extensive comments. By the way – how much comment could a sweet kitten picture probably deserve?

Like whatever you like

Should we like out of obligation because we are worried about somebody’s feelings? That’s completely up to you and it is no problem if you do. When I really fancy a boy I will automatically laugh about all his crappy jokes because I like HIM. When my grandma tells a post-war story – and be it for the 10th time – I listen, because she is important to me. Sometimes we like stuff because of the person who shares it with us and not because of its actual content. Where is the problem?

Don’t be afraid

…of liking things. To you it might not be a big deal but it might cheer up a friend. We all need affirmation. Dare to give it and you will get it back. Fans of more articulated content, you can join a political discussion forum, hang out on Google+ or better – meet in real life.

So, check yourself right now: do you have a smile on your face? You know what to do!